Is the LORD among us, or not? Believing God for the impossible

One of the things that I’ve been doing lately was reading the many articles and blog posts about the state of marriages and relationships today.  While Christian singles have been all but abandoned by the churches, we also face a deteriorating culture that has ingrained poisonous ideas…

http://geeksjourney.com/is-the-lord-among-us-or-not-believing-god-for-the-impossible

Why do I keep running across the same people within a population of MILLIONS?

So I’m checking out all the local groups within 50 miles on Meetup.com to see if there’s any that might hold my interest, just to get myself out there and meeting new people. First group I look at, and there’s a photo in it of one of my coworkers. Not just any coworker either,…

http://geeksjourney.com/why-do-i-keep-running-across-the-same-people-within-a-population-of-millions

How churches today abandoned the Christian single

During the time that I attended a service in Colorado, I noticed a few curious things that had me pondering about the state of Christian singles today and how churches treat them.  There were so many groups and ministries that were specifically tailored for couples, families, children,…

http://geeksjourney.com/how-churches-today-abandoned-the-christian-single

Is there any hope when even the voice of God may not be enough to bring a couple together?

  I’ve been reading this story with interest, part of a series of love stories that are posted on a blog written by some of my favorite people on the web.  The story is basically about Alicia’s journey into ultimately finding her future husband.  She writes:   There were…

http://geeksjourney.com/is-there-any-hope-when-even-the-voice-of-god-may-not-be-enough-to-bring-a-couple-together

I don’t know why I keep expecting Christians to act like, you know, Christians

I came across a blogger, female, Christian, single, in her thirties and a fellow New Yorker, basically a lot of shared common ground, so I sent out a friendly tweet. While she checked out my “about” page, my tweets were of course blown off. Not alpha enough for her tastes…

http://geeksjourney.com/i-dont-know-why-i-keep-expecting-christians-to-act-like-you-know-christians

Don’t look away, don’t look away, don’t look away…

I noticed a very cute girl at the Apple Store walking past me to pick up a gift card. She looked at me and I quickly looked away, and as SOON as I did it I knew it was game over. It was so automatic that I wonder how many times this was going to keep happening before I learned to hold my gaze…

http://geeksjourney.com/dont-look-away-dont-look-away-dont-look-away

Propinquity: A Lone Wolf’s Kryptonite

I discovered a new word that helped me understand a few things about attraction, things that I had already figured out for myself in a way, but it’s nice to see a little bit of science backing it up too. This is why online dating is such a difficult endeavor for men, even when you’re…

http://geeksjourney.com/propinquity-a-lone-wolfs-kryptonite